Mystery

Maintain some mystery on a date. Don’t give it all away. And what I mean by this is save a little mystery. Answer some questions vaguely, not going in to detail. Men love mysterious women. This is a fact. Time and time again I have had this work on more than one man. It virtually guarantees a second date if the date in itself is going well. Now I don’t mean be evasive about everything he asks, just a few things. To keep the conversation going always change the subject or immediately jump to another topic within the same realm, just not answering the direct question itself. Some examples are included below:

His question: Does your family live nearby? Close. Your answer: I’m really glad too because so many people don’t have family to rely on. Wow, this place is really crowded tonight. What about your family?

Him: What do you do for a living? You: I work for a publisher. It’s really great.
Him: Really, where? A company that’s been around for a few year; there are actually quite a few publishing companies in this district. Do you enjoy your career?

And the all time perfect get his attention mysterious action? Start to ask him something and then say never mind and give an innocent smile and then launch into another conversation topic.